Paint, thinner, solvents, fuel, antifreeze, motor oil, pesticides, and weed killer should never go down a sink, tub, or toilet. They can kill the bacteria that do the tank's work, and they don't stop at the tank. Whatever stays liquid rides the effluent (the settled liquid leaving the tank) out into the drainfield, and where Maury County's soil is thin over fractured limestone, there's less soil between that drainfield and the groundwater that wells draw from.
Clean water is the other thing the system doesn't want. Roof drains, sump pumps, and pool or hot-tub water don't need treatment, and piping them into the tank or across the field floods soil that should be soaking up wastewater. Route them away from the system.